And now for something light. Maybe funny. Not sure.
I have periodically facilitated worship services for residents of care homes. Decades ago, during one of these events, some of the patrons who attended were especially distracted. While my wife played the piano and I sang a hymn with the intention that others could sing along, most of those gathered that day were not involved. That’s an understatement. We kept on anyway, knowing these precious souls matter to God and convinced that He loves people regardless of our capacity to respond. As a case in point, one day when I was scheduled to show up and lead one of these services, I felt rushed, thinking I had too much to do to go and serve folks who might have not known I was in the room. I carried my ambivalence into the music, and as we sang “if ever I loved Thee, my Jesus ‘tis now,” I caught more than the intent of the songwriter. I sensed the compassion of Jesus for all of us. The old song corrected my self-importance and reminded me that caring for people is an act of service to Jesus, if not a means of self-satisfaction. Certainly, I’ve been the continuous beneficiary of his kindness while my mind wanders to lesser priorities. So, I sing from the same songbook, so to speak, as my friends in the audience that day. But back to the opening story. During the music and my homily, several distractions created both drama and comedy. One man, passing through the middle of the gathered residents, thought it would be a good time to go for a walk outside and so pressed the panic bar on the exit door, activating the alarm. Another shouted in his direction, “Someone should slit his throat!” I’m not sure if this sentiment was due to her general irritation or to the fact that he had upset her religious sensibilities. Another person focused on retrieving a pair of glasses from the floor—glasses that seemed to be nowhere in sight, except in the memory of the one searching. Others seemed preoccupied with a variety of thoughts. Were they in the distant past? Were they listening but unable to interact? These moments have been poignant for me, having observed my Mom decline to the point where she couldn’t interact with us and seldom recognized us. Finally, we completed the service, which had been brief though it had felt like a chapter from eternity. Immediately, after I had ended the final prayer, a woman loudly declared, “Thank goodness it’s over!” Inwardly, I said, “Amen sister.” Since then, I’ve often voiced that sentiment, if only to myself. "Thank goodness it's over! After a challenging meeting, a critical conversation, a tedious task, or completing something I’ve put off too long. Some responsibilities are heavy. Others are merely routine. And there are those activities we can’t get enough of. For each of these we can thank goodness it's over. Before rushing off to the next thing, we benefit from taking time to celebrate that we did something worthwhile, that we did it well. And yes, we might rejoice that it’s now in the past. There is a lesson in the lady’s joy at the end of an interrupted, convoluted exercise. We could celebrate the end of things that have taken time, skills, and focus. We could reframe these as acts of service—divine service for those who live in the Faith. And we might as well enjoy the humour in them as well as the life lesson, because events that seem obscure in the moment live in our inner library of life lessons for the rest of time. Might as well enjoy today as the best day of our lives… For help managing emotions, celebrating family, building healthy relationships, and for other themes, consider BRUISED KNUCKLES AND OTHER LESSONS IN FAITH. And… For 47 daily readings about escaping perfectionism and embracing reality, you can find my book THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE here… grant mcdowell in all shops | chapters.indigo.ca The Best Day of Your Life: Embrace Reality, Escape Perfectionism. A Spiritual Journey: McDowell, Grant: 9781547231874: Books - Amazon.ca
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Let’s talk about core strengths. Several years ago, I suffered from consistent pain in my lower back. I went to the doctor, who recommended stretching exercises. She also suggested I see a physiotherapist. After a few treatments, the therapist had prescribed exercises to build my core strength, because this provides stability for the spine. When I asked how often I should do these exercises, she said I should do them every day. I’ve done them religiously, almost daily. As a result, my pain is minimal and periodic, not constant. Not every back problem is so easily treated. My point, in telling this story, is that every strength radiates out from our core.
When we neglect core values, we make at least two mistakes. First, we lose perspective and feel like giving up on our roles, our families, even our lives. For example, I value communicating about truth and principles that offer value to others. And I keep learning about my field and developing skills. But sometimes I feel like no matter how hard I work at communicating, I’m failing to help others. When that feeling hits, my perception of my work and even my worth can deteriorate. I read a story, which may be fiction, that illustrates loss of perspective. A famous singer prepared carefully for a performance in a large theater. His performance was the main event of the evening. He sang brilliantly. The audience in the sold-out venue rose to their feet and applauded. Three curtain calls later, he left the stage. His manager congratulated him. But he replied that he felt he had failed. The manager was flabbergasted and reminded him of the eager praise from everyone in attendance. The singer replied that one person in the front row had neither stood nor applauded. “So what?” said the manager. “What’s one person’s attitude got to do with it?” “He was my teacher,” said the singer. We might each have vulnerabilities to one or more sources that trigger a sense of failure. But if, like this performer, we keep building the core strength, we will encourage many others, even if someone we hope to impress doesn’t like us or our work. Second, we chase fads instead of sticking to what we know. This is easy to do in North American culture where being new or novel draws praise, at least until the next novelty appears. For example, who won the award for best actor two years ago? Who won the scoring title in your favorite sport last season? Whose novel was number one six months ago? Similarly, what woke idea was hottest last year? What fashion trend, hair color, vehicle design, or stock promised to change our lives? About a year ago, my vehicle required several costly repairs. As a result, I spent time searching local dealerships’ websites and occasionally dropping in to look at newer models. I also worked out budget plans so that I could convince myself these SUV’S or trucks were affordable. Eventually, I faced the fact that, even though my older car had soaked up quite a bit of cash, it is exactly what I need ninety-five percent of the time. The latest trend will not improve my life. Instead of spending time and money on something I can’t afford, I chose to stick with the thing that serves my core need for transportation almost all the time. So how do we anchor ourselves in core strengths? We live from basic beliefs. I often say that everyone is religious, meaning that everybody longs for meaning and purpose. Some root this in family; some search for it through a career; others find this through faith in God. From our foundations, we build, consciously or subconsciously, our paradigm of purpose. For example, I believe I am created in God’s image, called by him to a relationship that receives his love and serves his ultimate purpose, and gifted to help others. Created. Called. Gifted. What is your foundation—your core strength? Let’s say your gift is perceiving loneliness in others. If you follow fads that suggest you should be noticed or rewarded for your kindness, you could easily give up on the lonely person. But if you have time for someone who might be slipping into depression, your measure of success could be that you took five minutes to make that phone call or write that affirming message on a card that will appear via snail mail in their mailbox. Success. Core strength delivered. Who cares if everyone doesn’t stand up and applaud? Here is a two-step takeaway. Act on a core strength as soon as you finish reading this or listening. What will you do? Then take a moment to celebrate how good it feels to know that’s who you are. For help managing emotions, celebrating family, building healthy relationships, and for other themes, consider BRUISED KNUCKLES AND OTHER LESSONS IN FAITH. And… For 47 daily readings about escaping perfectionism and embracing reality, you can find my book THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE here… grant mcdowell in all shops | chapters.indigo.ca The Best Day of Your Life: Embrace Reality, Escape Perfectionism. A Spiritual Journey: McDowell, Grant: 9781547231874: Books - Amazon.ca What will you do with this year?
The wrapping is recycled, and we have taken down our Christmas trees. Less than 350 days until Christmas. New Years Day was just another day like any other. But so was the day you were born, the day you started school, the day you began that new job. Days have the meaning we give them. So, what meaning will you give the days of this? That question might sound either existential or meaningless, because many aspects of our lives will remain the same. We will buy groceries and gas at higher-than-ever prices. We will go to work and start over each week or each shift. Most relationships of December 31st will remain generally the same on January 31st. We control very few outcomes. But here are four decisions we have power to make every day, even when the results are out of our hands. You are not in control, but you can choose the source of your identity. Where is your center—that ground you stand on, the person or place you hold on to when the earth seems to move beneath your feet? Everything changes with time, including families, health, finances, and friendships. What will you rely on that lasts beyond time? When life boils away the stuff and the fluff, I am left with my faith in a God who loves and leads through the night as well as each new day. What is your foundation? You are not in control, but you can choose to develop your gifts and your design. What are you good at? What are you going to do to strengthen that fabric in your life? Sitting on our strengths doesn’t benefit anyone. Coaching helps focus on potential rather than perpetually dwelling on weaknesses. Acknowledging strengths and building on them helps us contribute from a healthy perspective to our teams. In their book Words Can Change Your Brain, authors Newberg and Waldman say, “A positive view of yourself will bias you toward seeing the good in others, whereas a negative self-image will incline you toward suspicion and doubt. Over time the structure of your thalamus will also change in response to your conscious words, thoughts, and feelings, and we believe that the thalamic changes affect the way in which you perceive reality.” (page 35) Hmm. You and I can choose to grow our gifts. You are not in control, but you can choose to love and grow your relationships. Community is the context for service and much more. Solomon wrote, “As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend.” (Proverbs 27:17; New Living Translation) Recently someone challenged my point of view about something. His feedback prompted research and a clearer understanding of what I believe. Yet his words also launched my deeper awareness of the subject. In other words, I grew because of a conversation. We limit our growth if we resist community. Dr. Henry Cloud, in his book The Power of the Other, wrote a series of questions that assess whether our connections help us grow to the next level: Am I being appropriately pushed to be better, to be more? What specifically am I being challenged to do better? What specifically am I being challenged to do that is more than I’m doing now? Am I being pushed past my comfort zone? When I resist or struggle, how are these feelings addressed? Do others remain firm in my need to grow? (Page 152) Finally, you are not in control, but you can discipline your life in the areas where you are gifted. A friend recently described disciplines as building scaffolding or bracing into our lives so that we have stability. We benefit from creating new habits and perpetually working at them. Our brains require exercise. Just as we can grow our capacity through practice, lack of motivated repetition can lead to decline in our skills and productivity. What habit will you begin or re-engage this year? How much effort are you willing to put into that? You can keep growing without the anxiety associated with being in control of the end results. The ends are not under your control, but you can do a lot of things to make them likely. Happy New Purpose. For 47 daily readings about escaping perfectionism and embracing reality, you can find my book THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE here… grant mcdowell in all shops | chapters.indigo.ca The Best Day of Your Life: Embrace Reality, Escape Perfectionism. A Spiritual Journey: McDowell, Grant: 9781547231874: Books - Amazon.ca I was browsing the bookshelf in a thrift store when I picked out a copy of The Best of Robert Service. Service was a gifted poet and storyteller. Who can read his work The Cremation of Sam McGee without feeling the cold of the north and the warmth of a coal and wood fire? It might be easy to assume that those whose gifts appear to vault them to fame have enjoyed an effortless string of successes. Experience proves otherwise.
Olympians, though perhaps gifted, train through pain in order to compete for a medal. And Henrik Lundqvist was recently inducted into the NHL Hall of Fame, yet he was drafted in the 7th round, 205th overall in the year 2000. Sometimes we do not recognize others’ gifts right away. Gifted goalies and authors do not have it easy. They excel through hard work and development and probably an occasional break. They work until it hurts, and then they work some more. A gift is not a license to be lazy but an invitation to grow into what we are created, called, and gifted to become. So, what capacity will you develop? If you are uncertain about your gifts or strengths, ask a partner, friend, and co-workers for input. Invest in a resource like StrengthsFinder or other helpful, informative tools. We come to points where we must choose where to invest our energy. We might ask ourselves, “Do I want to be okay at a lot of things, or will I become extremely effective in one or two areas?” For example, a student typically chooses one major area of study and might add a minor. Few can effectively major in more than one field. Why would we expect ourselves to serve or lead with excellence in everything? I might have a semi-truckload of ideas, but I have a small pickup truck of capacity for each day. This metaphor reminds me of the unpacked items my wife and I chose to give away before a move. As we sifted through the boxes in our storage area, we found things leftover from the previous transition. We took photos of mementos, then hauled them away before we packed the things we would need. Life’s “truck” only has room for essentials. This is true of our time and energy too. Once you regain clarity about your gifts and strengths, choose at least thirty minutes each week to review and reset where you plan to focus your energy in the next seven days as much as you have the flexibility to do so. If you decide to include this practice as a consistent, personal discipline, you will likely find it empowers you to let go of some of the ideas you feel you “should” explore while you engage in the things that exercise the strengths God has woven into your life. One of many insightful books about narrowing our areas of focus is Greg McKeown’s Essentialism, a brilliant read I think you would enjoy. Our gifts are not a free pass but an invitation to grow. For brief daily prayers and recommended readings, you may find help from my book HONEST TO GOD – SIMPLE PRAYERS IN A COMPLEX WORLD. And… For help managing emotions, celebrating family, building healthy relationships, and for other themes, consider BRUISED KNUCKLES AND OTHER LESSONS IN FAITH. And… For 47 daily readings about escaping perfectionism and embracing reality, you can find my book THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE here… grant mcdowell in all shops | chapters.indigo.ca The Best Day of Your Life: Embrace Reality, Escape Perfectionism. A Spiritual Journey: McDowell, Grant: 9781547231874: Books - Amazon.ca Think of one of your greatest strengths. What comes to mind?
Strength: You feel compassion for those who live with a personality disorder, and you befriend them and support them. Weakness: You feel compassion for those who live with a personality disorder, and so you let them dominate and control your time and plans, causing friction for everyone else in your life. As a result, you fail to see the negative impact of too few boundaries. Strength: You see the best in others, so you encourage them and give them opportunities. Weakness: You see the best in others, so it takes a long time to see the confusion they bring to others on the team. Strength: You think in great administrative detail, so you foresee details and problems. Weakness: You think in great administrative detail, so you do not stop to see the impact of your quick decisions on relationships. What is a healthy way to walk the line between our own strengths/weaknesses? Self-awareness and self-acceptance give us solid footing for cooperating with others, while maintaining our identities. Having a sober estimate of ourselves is both humbling and confidence-building. Completing a personality profile and learning how our default responses impact other people helps us grow our shadow side. I experienced this recently as I filled out a profile that I have done numerous times over the years. This last time, my answers to the statements resulted in a slightly different result, because I have worked at developing a weaker side of my capacity. The principle is that we have never arrived. As I have noted before, we need to show up and grow up. Being consistently present for those we love and those we serve with is the way to growth, and so is willingness to learn how to serve well with our best gifts. What about the strength/weakness paradigm of others? When we were newlyweds, my wife discovered that my quiet, contemplative side, which she liked, had a flip side. I can get lost in my inner dialogue instead of talking with her. We have learned prompts like, “What are you thinking about right now?” or “Where did you go in your head?” or “What’s on your mind right now?" One strategy for interacting with others’ strength/weakness is to ask probing questions like these. But keep in mind that persons who process internally might need more time to understand what they are thinking. Another helpful principle is to trust each other to have good intentions. If a partner or a team member expresses opinions forcefully but does not appear to care what others think, it is better to thank them for their feedback and say that you have an idea to bring alongside. Then compare the strengths of the ideas. Probing questions and trust building go a long way toward peace and productivity. Whether we are trying to understand a marriage partner or a team member, completing and sharing the results of a personality profile sheds light on the reasons behind our differing points of view. Some of these tools are free and online, offering a place to begin the conversation. I look forward to learning more with you next time, and as I keep working on the next book, I will keep sharing posts. Until then, you are invited to visit the online bookstores or ask your local bookseller if they can order a copy of one of these titles. For brief daily prayers and recommended readings, you may find help from my book HONEST TO GOD – SIMPLE PRAYERS IN A COMPLEX WORLD. And… For help managing emotions, celebrating family, building healthy relationships, and for other themes, consider BRUISED KNUCKLES AND OTHER LESSONS IN FAITH. And… For 47 daily readings about escaping perfectionism and embracing reality, you can find my book THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE here… grant mcdowell in all shops | chapters.indigo.ca The Best Day of Your Life: Embrace Reality, Escape Perfectionism. A Spiritual Journey: McDowell, Grant: 9781547231874: Books - Amazon.ca Ever have a bug land on your sunglasses when you are hiking, biking, or driving? A tiny insect does not block your view, but it can capture your attention. The bug is distracting, so you likely take off your glasses and blow it away. It’s just an insect, so why focus on it when you can enjoy everything else still in view.
Ever have a problem in a relationship that bugs you? One day my wife and I talked about something that irritated us. We both felt badly, because even though this was a crucial conversation, we emerged from the process feeling the emotional equivalent of road rash. But our recovery was easier because we knew this irritant was like an insect on the lens of our much larger life together. The problem was not our whole relationship. The same reality can be applied to work relationships where you and a team member disagree. It might help to talk about the issue that blocks your view by affirming that you work together well and that you appreciate the other person’s gifts. Often, if trust is built over time, the crucial conversation is like blowing the fly off your sunglasses. So, develop the skill of initiating dialogue. It will be worth it. Some helpful reminders: allow plenty of time to listen to the other person; plan the visit so that it is not hurried; ask feedback from a trusted mentor before your planned conversation; expect to follow-up later with the person you need to talk with; important issues can take time, but undealt with, they take forever. Now, please excuse me. There is a bug on my screen. I have to deal with it. For brief daily prayers and recommended readings, you may find help from my book HONEST TO GOD – SIMPLE PRAYERS IN A COMPLEX WORLD. And… For help managing emotions, celebrating family, building healthy relationships, and for other themes, consider BRUISED KNUCKLES AND OTHER LESSONS IN FAITH. And… For 47 daily readings about escaping perfectionism and embracing reality, you can find my book THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE here… grant mcdowell in all shops | chapters.indigo.ca The Best Day of Your Life: Embrace Reality, Escape Perfectionism. A Spiritual Journey: McDowell, Grant: 9781547231874: Books - Amazon.ca Copyright ©Grant McDowell, 2023
We were hiking up a mountain trail when we came to a lookout—a point where the vista of peaks near and distant was stunning.
Because we had gained 900 meters (about 3,000 feet) of elevation within four kilometers, we thought we might stop there. But we could see the summit, not far away but considerably higher. The trail to the top was rougher and less defined. Our resting place had a bench after all. A pair of hikers, descending from the peak, looked at us, likely assessing our age and capacity, and advised that the view from where we were was as good as the one from the top. So why go further? Because we could. As we ascended the broken trail, I sensed the voice of God whisper his wisdom, telling me that He has more—that I should not crave the familiar, the safe, the known, but that I should follow Him where I don’t know the way. From a spiritual perspective, it’s helpful to note the words of the Apostle Paul, who described his journey toward the more complete purpose God had for him. He wrote, “No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us.” (Philippians 3:13-14; NLT*) In life, we are en route to something we cannot fully understand or appreciate until we get there, like that higher ridge. I find this challenging because I value consistency. I like some things to be predictable. But life isn’t that way. Consistency, for its own sake, can lead to stagnation. For example, sometimes changing jobs is the better choice, even if it means leaving behind a place you love, a job you do well, or an organization you like. Maybe we benefit from occasional shifts out of those safe, deep, and good rhythms of life. I am not advocating flippant consumerism, but awareness of the difference between healthy contentment and complacency or being stuck. So how do we continue growing while at the same time being happy? I think part of the answer to this question is being at home with ourselves and our Creator. I have sometimes wondered at this point in my life what space I would call “home.” Yet I have a growing awareness that geography will never quench my thirst for completeness. Only God can do this. Jesus referred to himself as the way, and the truth, and the life. He is Himself my home, and so any place is home because He is there. When the trail leads further into the unknown, I know Him. So, the point is not where we live or for how long. The principle is to not be so contented that we become complacent and avoid the next level of growth. And don’t let others’ perception of you, your youth, your age, or experience or lack of it minimize your viewpoint or your decisions. You don’t have capacity for everything, but don’t ignore your God-given potential for growth where your abilities can stretch. Take another step toward that ridge; don’t travel alone; know that any place is home when you go with God. *New Living Translation For brief daily prayers and recommended readings, you may find help from my book HONEST TO GOD – SIMPLE PRAYERS IN A COMPLEX WORLD. And… For help managing emotions, celebrating family, building healthy relationships, and for other themes, consider BRUISED KNUCKLES AND OTHER LESSONS IN FAITH. And… For 47 daily readings about escaping perfectionism and embracing reality, you can find my book THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE here… grant mcdowell in all shops | chapters.indigo.ca The Best Day of Your Life: Embrace Reality, Escape Perfectionism. A Spiritual Journey: McDowell, Grant: 9781547231874: Books - Amazon.ca Find the Inspire Discovery podcast here: https://www.podbean.com/ep/pb-9wjh2-1424fef
When you reflect on your life, and you fall into the trap of condemning yourself for every error that comes to mind, who do you think you are? Some of us, by personality or training or experience or other forces that shaped us, take ourselves too seriously. We have moments when we think our words, actions, mistakes, or youthful foolishness is responsible for all the outcomes in our own or others’ lives. Yes, actions have consequences. And we ought to apologize for doing wrong. However, I’m referring to the self-despising perfectionism that believes one controls destiny. We have limited power to direct the future. This is true of pastoring, partnering, parenting, or any other relationship. So, who do we think we are if we believe we must carry the weight of everyone else’s well-being? Others have the right to decide how they will live. It’s time to set down the burden of trying to be the solution to others’ problems. Jesus put it simply enough: “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy to bear, and the burden I give you is light.” (Mathew 11:28-30; New Living Translation) His invitation was, and is, to trust him with the outcomes, to come alongside him and walk with him, yoked, or bonded to him. We note that he doesn’t say we should invite him to come alongside us. No, he tells us to come alongside him. His burden for us is simple obedience in the joyful camaraderie of his presence. Walking with the one who knows everything is a joyful and light burden. Some carry the heavy weight of family needs, health problems, an exhausting business, or a heavy ministry. Caring is the right thing to do of course. The point is that we have control of what we give and what we do, not how life turns out. The question we ask ourselves is, “Who do I think I am, to believe all outcomes depend on me?” Let him carry the heavy end of the load for you, your family, your business, your ministry. Who do we think he is? He doesn’t magically make trouble disappear. He puts life in perspective…we are not in control. He is. For brief daily prayers and recommended readings, you may find help from my book HONEST TO GOD – SIMPLE PRAYERS IN A COMPLEX WORLD. And… For 47 daily readings about escaping perfectionism and embracing reality, you can find my book THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE here… grant mcdowell in all shops | chapters.indigo.ca The Best Day of Your Life: Embrace Reality, Escape Perfectionism. A Spiritual Journey: McDowell, Grant: 9781547231874: Books - Amazon.ca Through whose lens do you see yourself? I recall going to work one day, encouraged and glad to be there after a weekend when my efforts seemed appreciated and effective. But when I arrived on the job, I was shamed for a detail I had missed. My mistake. All mine. That was easy to admit. What was difficult to take was being diminished. Moments like those require reframing whose lens we see ourselves through. Anderson and Adams write something helpful in this regard. They contrast a reactive mind with the creative mind, emphasizing that creative leadership emerges from the inside out. They describe the transition from reactive to creative mind this way. “The belief that ‘I am okay only if you always like or admire me’ is replaced with ‘I am okay whether or not you like and admire me.’ The belief that ‘to be is to be successful and, thus, failure is not an option’ is replaced with ‘I create results; I am not my results. Failure and mistakes are part of the process of creating success.’” (Mastering Leadership, 217) Almost every week, I must decide which lenses I will look at myself through. While several perspectives on my work might be appreciative, there is usually at least one that questions my decisions or reacts against me. Pushback or feedback is valuable because it helps us learn what we don’t see without others’ wisdom. And we can try to incorporate this input and gain traction for the overall goal of the group rather than let it destroy our desire to create a better future. Yet when someone personally diminishes us or ridicules our points of view, let’s look at the evidence for what they say instead of buying their words at face value. In order to develop and help others grow, it’s useful to stop and ask ourselves some simple questions.
While our own health as leaders is critically important, our lens for those we lead is too. A supervisor is an Encourager in Chief. A leader once told me, “I hope people realize how fortunate they are to have you here.” Take time to let your team members know how valuable they are. Treat them as you would like to be treated. Model the way of the more clear, honest lens. And look both honestly and kindly on yourself. My role as a life coach is to help you discover more about yourself. This book will help you adjust your lens. For 47 daily readings about escaping perfectionism and embracing reality, you can find my book THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE here… grant mcdowell in all shops | chapters.indigo.ca The Best Day of Your Life: Embrace Reality, Escape Perfectionism. A Spiritual Journey: McDowell, Grant: 9781547231874: Books - Amazon.ca |
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